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6 Rules of Breaking Up
How to break up easily
One of the hardest thing in our life is breaking up, ending of relationships. It’s almost always hard. You are going to hurt your lover’s heart. How to do it right and easy as possible?
1. Know the answers why you want to break up
You decided to break up. Why? Find the reasons. Think do you can fix that? No? Ok. Know the answers. Because your partner will ask you why.
2. Decide how long you are going to talk
The last talk always is difficult. It can last for hours. And it will be too hard for you and your partner. Decide before the talk how long it will last. If you know, that you couldn’t stop the talk by yourself help yourself, arrange an appointment with a friend. And when you think that it’s time to leave say that you can stay your friend are waiting for you.
3. Do it in person
Don’t be coward. It is difficult to say that you are breaking up looking in the eyes. But you must do it in person. Be courage. Finish it. Don’t give an illusion of hope.
4. Talk only in private
Public is inadmissible. Do not make a show. It’s hard. No one wants to be broken up with in public or near family and friends
5. Be calm
It isn’t easy, but try to be cool. Try to avoid phrase “We need to talk”. It’s a signal of difficult talk. Do not break up during the quarrel. Do it calmly and peacefully. Do your best to reduce harm as much as possible.
6. Fade away
For the first time you must distance yourself. Don’t call, don’t go places where you can come across with you ex-lover. Take the time.